Don't love overthinkers.

How overthinker loves.

first, they will fall in love with the smallest things about you, your smile, the color of your eyes and the way you talk etc. they will spend days imagining you, and your facial expressions when you speak, and nights understanding what your text message meant. they value the little things like effort and affection more than gifts.

why they are overthinkers.

they have traumatic events in the past, stress experienced in present, or high pressure of demands and life.

How they think.

they'll imagine for hours even for whole nights and why you didn't say hello to them at breakfast, why you didn't say I love you to them and start to create unrealistic scenarios in their head that you decided you no longer like them, you are irritated for them, you no longer need them, you no longer want them.

What they expected or wanted.

they want only you, they will always want to ask you if you're okay and constantly say that they love you just to hear it back them. they will cry when you start kissing them like it's your job and touching them like it's a habit.

how they react.

if you're just dating him| or her so don't date because otherwise, they will suffocate you with their care and affection.

they will cry so hard hugging the pillows you can not even imagine. the way your eyes stopped lightning up at the sound of their very own name.

they will hurt you by saying bad things earn you can't give them what they expected or wanted from you.

they will overthink the fact that maybe they are just overthinking again and when you try to leave them they will beg for your importance for you to reply fast to give them the attention they only want from you . and if you leave they will only be left with late night sorrows, hating themselves sooo fucking much you can't even imagine the question in their head.

what did I did wrong?

why do I want him| or her so much?

why can't iu live without them?

why can't they love me as much as I love to do?

and so many freaking questions they'll hit like a hammer in their head.

Do not love an overthinker until; you plan to love them for a lifetime.

how to control an overthinker.

first, you have to be loyal to them .and then control your emotions your and thoughts.

no matter how difficult the situation is ..... you have to be positive or we can say it is " toxic positivity ".

focus on the present moment, live with your partner, and don't say mean words because they think too much and get stressed by that.

develop trust in your partner, and be clear with yourself about what it is that this matters in your relationship.

if they catch any single lie they will think about everything you say.

let them be them. whatever they want to do give them space and support.

action speaks louder than words.

FIZA QURESHI