Unveiling the secrets of attention seekers: Craving the spotlight

Ever met someone who crave attention or wants the spotlight of the room always!? Yes we all met them once or everyday in our daily life and we call them attention seekers. Whether in a loud voice or posting everything on social media and by sharing every single detail about them to everyone.

Let's Dim the Limelight

HaHa at some point we all have some stories or incidents to tell about the attention seekers...we know there is some of them in our friends group too but better not to speak about them ...it's like they are saying loudly "Hey look at me..hello..look what I am trying do so!!",By noticing them or letting them know about there presence is like giving a big hug to their ego..like seriously dude!!!!

Routes but roots

Let's get to know about them..some of them are loud and always flashy they want everyone to look at them. Some are quiet they seek attention by constantly talking about themselves or fishing for compliments its like they want someone to pat their back always or by saying ""Awww ..WoW you're so amazing.."!!

Dive in the oceans

Maybe they didn't get enough love or praise when they were younger, or maybe they're just not sure if they're good enough. So, they keep doing things to get noticed, hoping it'll make them feel better about themselves, it all starts from feeling unsure about themselves.

Over the time they learned that, by seeking attention they gets what they want. So now, they keep doing it because they think it's the only way to feel good about themselves.

Does that affect

Being around someone who always wants attention can be tough. It's like they're always asking for something, and it can be exhausting. Sometimes, it feels like you're not really connecting with them because everything is about them getting attention.

It can also make it hard to trust them because you're not sure if they're being genuine or just putting on a show. And that can hurt relationships and friendships because trust is super important. Being around someone who always wants attention can be tough. It can feel like they're always taking and never giving back. its even get worse and frustrating...

Out of the Blue

They are used to want validation on every single point and wants to get assurance on everything again and again ... like it gets so irritating... and also it's just one sided validation thing.. no assurance from their side they just want from us..

They will try to make you feel guilty on their mistakes also..like some of us know a very good example of some girls..when they want some attention they try to change their voices in front of someone and try to act cute..and same goes with the boys.. they try to loud their voice and speaks unnecessary.

Some people used to blah blah about the next persons habits then after some days you notice that they are trying to copy them and wants to get attention by their habits..you can call them dual faces.. :/

While some people are "Wannabees" lets not talk about this hehe then the topic will go out of the track.. lol it is but lets get back on the topic :)

Bind up

Attention seeking behavior might seem annoying, but it often comes from a place of insecurity or learned behavior. By showing understanding and support, we can create better relationships and help attention seekers feel more confident in themselves.

Attention seekers aren't bad people; they're just looking for a little extra love and validation. By understanding why they act the way they do and offering them support and kindness, we can build stronger and more meaningful relationships with them. After all, we all need a little attention sometimes, don't we?

Here the blog ends.. thanks cyaa... ;)