Don’t be yourself

"Be yourself" is a common piece of advice we often hear. It generally suggests that you should trust your instincts and act according to your desires. Additionally, it serves as a way for someone to help alleviate any stress you might be experiencing.

However… what if "yourself" isn't your best self, or far from who you aspire to be? How do you feel when you hear "just be yourself"? I used to feel helpless when I was actually seeking advice or an opinion. I knew what I would do as myself, but I wanted more perspectives. I also recognized the need for self-improvement, so this phrase didn’t help me at all.

The next time you hear "be yourself," consider seeking better answers that can guide you toward solutions. There's always room for improvement, and life is too short not to present your "best" self to the world.