Seriously, What's the Deal with AI? (And How Do We Fit In?)

Ashdeep SinghAshdeep Singh
5 min read

/* Trying to locate humanity in the neural net... */

Alright, let's talk about AI. It feels like it's suddenly everywhere, doesn't it? One minute it's sci-fi movie stuff, the next it's helping write emails or making slightly terrifying art online. (Seriously, sometimes I ask it for a cat picture and get something that looks like it crawled out of a Salvador Dali painting after a rough night!) It's kinda cool, maybe a tiny bit freaky, and definitely makes you wonder, "Okay... so what am I supposed to do now?"

Maybe it's like Alan Watts said - "The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance."

If you're feeling that mix of excitement and "uh oh," you're definitely not the only one. But honestly? I don't think it's about us all needing to become coding geniuses or letting robots take over our lives. It feels more like figuring out how to use this new, sometimes weird, technology without losing touch with... well, us.

So, how do we manage that? I reckon it comes down to two big ideas: figuring out how to handle the tech side without stressing, and remembering all the good stuff that makes us human.


Getting Your Head Around the Tech Stuff (No PhD Required!)

First off, you don't need to become a super-nerd. Remember when smartphones first came out? We just sort of... figured them out. It's kinda like that.

  • Just Play Around: The best way to make it less weird is to just try it. Use an AI chatbot to ask silly questions, get it to write a goofy poem, or help you brainstorm dinner ideas. Once you see what it does (and what it's bad at!), it feels less like magic and more like just another tool.

  • Think of it Like a Fancy Assistant: AI can be great for the boring bits. Seriously, if it can summarise a long meeting or sort through a zillion emails, let it! That leaves more time and brain space for you to do the stuff that actually needs your touch – figuring out tricky problems, having real conversations, or coming up with actually new ideas. Let's be real, AI might take some jobs, but I dont see it volunteering to take out the trash anytime soon.

  • Stay a Little Curious: Nobody's saying you need to study constantly. But things are changing fast. Just keeping an ear out, maybe reading an article here and there or trying a new feature when it pops up, helps you stay in the loop without it feeling like homework.

  • Don't Believe Everything It Says!: This is a big one. AI can spit out stuff that sounds super confident but is totally wrong or biased. Always have that little voice in your head asking, "Wait, does that actually make sense?" Trust your own gut and common sense.

It really reminds me of that idea – "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent; it is the one most adaptable to change." Makes sense, right?


Remembering How to Be... People!

Okay, this might sound obvious, but in a world full of screens, it's easy to forget the non-techy things that really matter. This is where we really shine

When we talk about getting creative, it brings to mind what Einstein apparently said: "Creativity is intelligence having fun." Let's have some fun then...

  • Our Human Tricks: What are we naturally good at? Understanding how someone feels without them saying it (that's empathy!). Having truly bonkers, creative ideas out of nowhere. Talking things through, really listening, maybe changing someone's mind (or having yours changed!). Figuring out messy, complicated situations where there's no right answer. AI might be logical, but has it ever spent 10 minutes looking for keys that were in its hand the whole time? Didn't think so. That's peak human performance right there.

  • Real People, Real Chats: Likes and DMs are fine, but they're not the same as laughing with a friend face-to-face, getting a hug from family, or just feeling part of a group. Making time for actual, real-world connections is huge for feeling good.

  • Do Stuff With Your Hands: Seriously, step away from the glowing rectangles! Bake something (even if it burns!), plant a flower (even if it dies!), fix that wobbly chair, doodle, strum a guitar badly. There's just something grounding and satisfying about making or doing something physical.

  • Look After You: Can't say this enough. Tech won't manage your stress levels, make sure you sleep enough, or help you feel okay when things are rough. You gotta do that. Exercise, chill out sometimes, talk about your feelings – basic, but essential.

It's worth remembering what Matt Mullenweg (one of the WordPress guys) said: "Technology is best when it brings people together." Simple, but true.


So, What's the Bottom Line?

It's not really about picking sides – Team Human vs. Team Robot. It's more like finding a way to let the tech help us out where it can, while we spend even more time and energy on the things that make life interesting, connected, and worthwhile.

It's all still unfolding, but we get to choose how we react. Stay curious, use the tools, but never forget to lean into being the awesome, slightly weird, totally unique human you are. That's something no code can copy.


Got your own tips for thriving with AI, or want to share your thoughts? Let me know below!


Further Resources to check out ~ 🔎

# Source: YouTube - Internet of Bugs, “Strategies to Thrive as AIs get Better - Especially for programmers”, 2025
# Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A_fOHpBqj50
0
Subscribe to my newsletter

Read articles from Ashdeep Singh directly inside your inbox. Subscribe to the newsletter, and don't miss out.

Written by

Ashdeep Singh
Ashdeep Singh