The Other Side of Trauma

Joy JerminJoy Jermin
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Trauma doesn’t always arrive with a bang—it can be quiet, chronic, and deeply buried. Sometimes it’s the big moments, but often, it’s the subtle, repeated ones that slowly leave us feeling emotionally raw, disconnected, on edge, or completely numb.

If you’re carrying trauma, hear this: **You are not broken.
**You are human.
You’ve lived through something difficult, and you made it through.
And while the pain may run deep, there is another side.

It won’t always feel this heavy.
You won’t always feel stuck.
There is a version of you waiting on the other side—whole, peaceful, powerful, and free.


What Trauma Feels Like

Trauma can show up in unexpected ways. You might experience:

  • Hypervigilance or anxiety – constantly waiting for something to go wrong

  • Emotional numbness – feeling detached from yourself or others

  • Flashbacks or intrusive thoughts – when the past replays like it’s happening now

  • Shame or self-blame – believing it was your fault

  • Isolation – feeling like no one understands, or that it’s safer to be alone

These responses are not weaknesses—they are your body’s way of protecting you. But they don’t have to define you forever.


The Other Side of Trauma

Healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means reclaiming.
Your peace. Your presence. Your power.
It’s learning to live from a place of groundedness rather than survival.

On the other side of trauma, there is:

  • Safety – a deep sense that you are safe in your own body

  • Self-compassion – the ability to meet yourself with kindness, not judgment

  • Empowerment – making choices from your truth, not your fear

  • Joy – not fleeting, but real, lasting joy

  • Connection – to yourself, to others, and to life again

Getting there isn’t always easy. Healing takes time, tenderness, and the courage to keep showing up for yourself.
But it’s so worth it.


Pathways to Healing

There’s no single path to healing from trauma. It’s about finding what supports you and moving at your own rhythm. Some healing tools include:

  • Therapy – trauma-informed therapy, EMDR, or talk therapy

  • Chi’Va – a powerful method that combines movement, mindfulness, and breathwork to help release stored trauma from the body, calm the nervous system, and restore clarity

  • Supportive Relationships – safe, loving connections that hold space for your healing

  • Creative Expression – journaling, art, music, or dance to help move stuck emotions

  • Spiritual Practices – meditation, breathwork, prayer, or grounding rituals that bring you back to yourself

You don’t have to walk this path alone.
Healing doesn’t mean becoming who you were before—it means becoming who you were always meant to be.


You Deserve to Heal

You deserve a life that feels safe.
You deserve mornings where your chest isn’t tight.
You deserve clarity, connection, and joy.

Even if it doesn’t feel possible right now, **there is another side.
**It’s not perfect—but it’s lighter, freer, and full of possibility.
And every small step you take toward healing brings you closer.


Start Your Journey Today

Whether you’re just beginning or deep in your healing, this moment is powerful because you're choosing yourself.

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You’re not alone. Healing is possible.
The other side is waiting.

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