Leadership Check: Are You Leading, or Just Managing?

In my years of building and directing teams, I've come to recognize a fundamental distinction that separates truly transformative leaders from those who simply keep operations running.

There's a subtle yet profound difference between managing tasks and leading people.

✴️ The Management Mindset

Managers focus primarily on execution and results:

👉 "Is the work getting done?"

👉 "Are we hitting our deadlines?"

👉 "How can we optimize this process?"

👉 "What's the status of this deliverable?"

These questions are necessary, of course. Accountability matters. Outcomes matter.

But they center on the work itself:

• the tangible outputs

• the measurable metrics

• the immediate results.

✴️ The Leadership Perspective

Leaders, however, elevate their focus to the people behind the work:

👉 "Is the team growing while doing the work?"

👉 "How is this project developing their capabilities?"

👉 "What barriers can I remove to help them succeed?"

👉 "Where might someone need support they haven't asked for?"

This perspective recognizes that the most valuable asset isn't the current “project” or the “deliverables”- it's the collective capacity of the team that will tackle all future challenges.

✴️ The Hardest Transition

I remember my own struggle with this transition. When I first moved into leadership, I brought my project management mindset with me. I was excellent at tracking deliverables, managing timelines, and ensuring quality standards. But I soon realized that while I was successfully managing work, I wasn't truly leading people.

The skills that had made me successful as an individual contributor and project lead , like technical expertise, attention to detail, methodical planning - weren't sufficient for leadership excellence. I needed to develop an entirely new set of capabilities.

✴️ The Leadership Skill Set

Through both successes and painful failures, I've learned that great leadership is less about knowing all the answers and more about asking better questions. It requires:

• Empathy to understand what motivates each unique individual

• Clarity to communicate vision in a way that inspires genuine commitment

• Curiosity to continuously learn from and with your team

• Courage to have difficult conversations that others avoid

• Patience to allow people space to grow through challenges

These qualities have proven far harder to master than Jira boards, project timelines, or technical specifications. They require continuous self-reflection, openness to feedback, and a willingness to be vulnerable.

✴️ The Leadership Question

The most revealing question I now ask myself regularly is not "Is my team executing well?" but rather "Would my team choose to follow me if they didn't have to?"

The answer to that question reveals whether you're truly leading or merely managing.

I'm curious about your experiences at this intersection: What do you think is the hardest part of being a people leader?

• Is it having difficult conversations?

• Building trust?

• Finding the right balance between support and accountability?

• Adapting your approach to different personality types?

or something else entirely?

Share your insights in the comments - I'd love to learn from your leadership journey as well.

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