My Turning Point: What I Learned After Failing JEE & Getting Scammed

Atharva BoradeAtharva Borade
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Yes, Time Travel is possible, and the best part? It doesnโ€™t require a time machine โ€” just your ๐Ÿง  BRAIN.

So today, while sitting alone, I got a random thought:
โ€œToday Iโ€™ve spent 3โ€“4 hours learning a skill,โ€ and imagining my future self, my brain literally thanked me for doing so.
Similarly, when you do the right things โ€” or even the wrong ones โ€” your brain analyzes and tells you if it was worth it or not. โœ…โŒ

Letโ€™s take an example:

Youโ€™ve completed your 12th Grade and have around 4+ months before your undergrad journey begins.
Now, there are multiple ways you could spend this time.

Letโ€™s assume you choose to chill with friends, thinking this is the last phase of freedom before college ๐ŸŽ‰

But fast forward, college beginsโ€ฆ
and you suddenly see yourself feeling left out because your classmates have already started building themselves โ€” learning skills ๐Ÿ“š, strengthening their fundamentals ๐Ÿ’ก

This is where regret hits hard ๐Ÿ˜ž

Itโ€™s a phase where most people get stuck.
They feel so overwhelmed, they even give up on small things ๐Ÿซค

But even then, if you restart โ€” and work harder than the rest โ€” you might just unlock your true potential ๐Ÿ”“๐ŸŒŸ

Maybe Iโ€™m overthinking, but I know this is the reality for most of my seniors.

My Story ๐Ÿงฉ

Iโ€™m Atharva.
I always wanted to do a lot of things early in life, even though deep down I knew that early success is a scam ๐Ÿ’ธ
And yes, Iโ€™ve lost a lot of time because of that mindset.

I thought Iโ€™d share this in another blog, butโ€ฆ
I think this is the right place ๐Ÿ“

The Beginning: Coding, Content & Curiosity ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿ“ฑ

During the Covid Pandemic, we all got glued to the internet โ€” and so did I ๐ŸŒ
Thatโ€™s when my brother told me about coding ๐Ÿ’ป
I slowly started building interest. At the time, I was just in 8th Grade โ€” too small to understand the vast world of tech and programming ๐Ÿ˜…
But those flashy ads made it look like it was โ€œjust for kidsโ€ ๐Ÿง’

So I purchased a coding course. It was a 6-month course, but guess what?

I completed it in 1.5 years ๐Ÿ™ˆ
Yeah, embarrassingโ€ฆ but true.

It felt overwhelming, so I quit midway.
That course gave me dreams, but barely any coding ๐Ÿฅฒ

Later, I came across the Instagram theme page business โ€” pages that post motivational content ๐Ÿ“ธ๐Ÿ’ฌ
This was the first time I wanted to earn money online ๐Ÿ’ฐ

So I invested โ‚น5,000 into a course that promised to teach me everything โ€” content creation, sales, marketing, social media management ๐ŸŽฏ

At this point, I know you might be thinking I was stupid ๐Ÿคฆ
Yes โ€” I was.

I thought Iโ€™d become a pro with that small investment.
After crying in front of my parents ๐Ÿ˜ข, I bought the course.
It took me 6 months to make my first sale ๐Ÿฅณ
I made some money, but it was time-consuming ๐Ÿ•’

And as I said earlier โ€” I loved fast money โšก

The Trap of Network Marketing ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

I got pulled into Network Marketing โ€” again.
This time, they promised that with just one-time investment and three recruits, Iโ€™d be driving a BMW next month ๐Ÿš—๐Ÿ’จ

Yeah, I knowโ€ฆ youโ€™re laughing ๐Ÿ˜…

But thatโ€™s how they pitch it to everyone.
So I joined. Again.

I invested, recruited 1โ€“2 people, and guess what?
I was still a schoolboy ๐ŸŽ’
My 10th Boards were online, so I had to quit everything and focus on exams ๐Ÿ“

Exams done.
Result? 87.60% ๐ŸŽ‰

Pune: Dreams, Distractions & Reality Check ๐Ÿ™๏ธ

For 11th & 12th, the stream was obviously SCIENCE ๐Ÿงช๐Ÿ“˜
I went to Pune for JEE prep.

Met amazing people โ€” some 10th toppers, others like me into online ventures ๐Ÿ’ฌ
We bonded well.

First few months were amazing โ€” treks, night outs, hostel chill scenes โ€” everything was perfect โ›บ๐ŸŽถ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿคโ€๐Ÿง‘

Then I met ABC (letโ€™s not name him)
He too was into network marketing ๐Ÿ˜

This time, I knew MLM = SCAM ๐Ÿšจ
I didnโ€™t want to cheat innocent people ๐Ÿ™…

But againโ€ฆ the dream of earning back lost money pulled me in ๐Ÿ’ธ
I invested a huge amount and got scammed ๐Ÿ˜ž

Youโ€™re right โ€” I went to Pune for JEE, but did everything else instead ๐Ÿ˜“

After getting scammed badly, I couldnโ€™t even face my parents ๐Ÿซฃ
They brought me back home ๐Ÿ 

The 12th Reset ๐Ÿ”

This time, it was the end of 11th.
After two months, my dad asked me to go back to Pune and complete my JEE course.

I was thankful ๐Ÿ™โ€ฆ but also tense ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

I hadnโ€™t opened a book the whole 11th โ€” basically a skip year โ›”๐Ÿ“š
I started 12th with full motivation and discipline โ€” solving DPPs, giving tests โœ๏ธโœ…

But then came advanced Physics & Chemistry, and I felt completely lost ๐Ÿงช๐Ÿ˜ต

I couldnโ€™t even see myself cracking JEE anymore ๐Ÿงโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’ญ

The rest of the year, I was just negative ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿšซ

And as expected โ€” I didnโ€™t crack JEE โŒ

My 12th Boards?
Scored around 76% โ€” honestly better than all my friends, so I was satisfied ๐Ÿ˜Š

Turning Point ๐Ÿ”„

This time, I made a promise to myself:
No more time-wasting โณโŒ

I decided to learn a skill before college starts.
I chose Python ๐Ÿ, and I started documenting my journey on LinkedIn and Instagram ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿ“ฑ

Why?

Because in the long run, itโ€™ll help me:
โœ… Build my personal brand
๐Ÿค Connect with industry experts
๐Ÿ’ผ Maybe even get internships

Why I Wrote This Blog โœ๏ธ

To share my learnings and experiences with you.
So that maybe, just maybe, it helps students like me ๐ŸŽ“

Also, it gives me back my lost hobby โ€” WRITING ๐Ÿ“โค๏ธ

If this resonated with you โ€”
Follow my journey on:
๐Ÿ“ธ Instagram: @atharvatalks._
๐Ÿ’ผ LinkedIn: Atharvaโ€™s LinkedIn

๐Ÿ” Share this with someone whoโ€™s just completed their 10th or 12th.
It might change their direction before itโ€™s too late. ๐Ÿš€

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