Lessons, Not Lectures: A Reader’s Take on 5 Killer Habits

Ayushi TiwariAyushi Tiwari
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This book isn’t a clichéd exploration about life, its purpose, or benevolence. Instead, it digs deeper into where we, as a society, often go wrong. Reading it felt like an epiphany—those quiet truths that linger at the back of our minds suddenly placed front and center.

That’s what Sree Krishna Seelam does best: he nudges you to pause, reflect, and truly reconsider how you live your everyday life.

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Mornings, Discipline, and the Power of a Head Start

It starts with something deceptively simple: waking up early.

The author lays out, backed by research, how early mornings sharpen decision-making, boost performance, and even help you finish most tasks by noon. Pair that with exercise, and you’ve got days that feel lighter, clearer, more intentional.

“Mornings aren’t just hours—they’re your head start on the world.”

As someone who thrives on discipline, I found myself nodding along. Sometimes, it’s as simple as showing up for yourself—sleeping early, moving your body, reclaiming time before the world wakes.

Being a Hero (Without the Cape)

Seelam’s next lesson caught me off guard: be a hero. But not in the cinematic sense.

Heroism, as he sees it, is about giving back—volunteering without expecting anything in return. In today’s world obsessed with cars, homes, and “upgrades,” we’ve forgotten how fulfilling service truly is.

Growing up in India, I never saw volunteering emphasized in schools, and this book reminded me of something we should all normalize: selfless contribution over status symbols.

Dromomania: When Travel Becomes Therapy

Then came dromomania—a word I’d never heard before. It refers to an almost compulsive urge to travel.

But Seelam reframes it beautifully: travel isn’t escape, it’s enrichment. He makes a case for solo travel, for how it fosters growth, helps us process emotions, and even fights loneliness.

It reminded me of Tuesdays with Morrie, where life’s real wealth lay in experiences, not possessions. Maybe that’s why so many of us feel unsatisfied—we’re stuck collecting things instead of meaning.

Reading: A Habit That Builds You Back

This part felt like home.

As someone who stumbled into reading in my teens and never left, I resonated deeply when Seelam spoke about books shaping our character. Reading has made me calmer, more empathetic, and more resilient.

Today, with reels dominating screens, children are missing out on that quiet joy of slipping into another life and returning a little wiser.

The Courage to Question

The final idea that struck me most: curiosity.

Seelam urges us to question—not rebelliously, but consciously. I’ve often been labeled an atheist by my mother for questioning superstitions. Reading his anecdotes felt validating. Growth, after all, begins with asking “why” instead of nodding along.

What Sets This Book Apart

Beyond its ideas, the book shines through its interactive approach. After every chapter, there are exercises and spaces to jot down your reflections—almost like having a dialogue with yourself.

For a non-fiction book, that’s rare. It bridges reading and doing, making the lessons stick.

Final Thoughts

As a fiction lover, I wished some ideas lingered longer—non-fiction often feels brisk that way. But what stayed with me was its intimacy: Seelam wrote this for his kids to read at 18, and it feels exactly like that—personal, warm, and meant for you.

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Ayushi Tiwari
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